Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Stroller Fun
Friday, September 25, 2009
Flashback Friday
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Sock Cleaning
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Wordless Wednesday
Friday, September 18, 2009
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Daddy's Boots
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Wordy Wednesday - Breakfast Conversation with Ella
Ella: Mommy, I want pony…and baby pig. You want pig too? I love animals, lets go see animals. Daddy home, we go see animals, okay?
Mommy: That sounds like a good plan. Maybe we will go see animals this weekend. Ella, you are so silly.
Ella: No, not silly, I just Ella. I love pink. My milk, you hold it. EIEIO – you sing it!
Mommy: Old MacDonald had a farm..
Ella: No, no, you stop singing, I sing now. Want pancakes?
Mommy: Are you excited about school tomorrow?
Ella: No, no school, I go beach, see Opa and buckets, I want pink bucket…..and seashells……. and water……..and shovels……..and Mommy Shushi! You go beach too! And Daddy, and Aidan. Take shoes off.
Mommy: Are you finished with breakfast yet?
Ella: No, I want lollipop.
Mommy: No honey, not for breakfast.
Ella: Okay, cookie? Where Aidan go?
Mommy: He finished his breakfast and now he’s in the playroom.
Ella: I go too. All done.
Mommy: Ok, well help me carry your dishes to the sink.
Ella: No, I do myself!
Mommy: Good job, thank you very much for your help!
Ella: You’re welcome too! See ya later! I go shopping now!
Monday, September 14, 2009
Princess Shoes
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
First Day of Preschool
Monday, September 7, 2009
The Night Before
Tomorrow is Ella and Aidan’s very first day of preschool.
For the first time in our two years together (well, more than that if you count the pregnancy!), Ella and Aidan will have a few hours of separate experiences from me - they will come home and talk about things that we haven’t shared together as a team. I will pick them up and they will babble and talk about stories and songs I don’t know. I'll sit and listen to them, and try to capture the threads of their experiences - to weave them into some sort of a pattern I can recognize, all the while shedding an invisible tear at my saddness to not have been with them and sharing in their fun.
But then I realize that they will be gaining experiences beyond what I can provide for them through playdates and swim class. They will not only have fun and socialize, but also begin to learn the art of a structured learning environment and the basics of the foundation for their future education.
In the end, I really just need to remind myself that it's really us parents who suffer the most from this milestone of letting go. Ella and Aidan will be just fine!
Friday, September 4, 2009
Flashback Friday
Thursday, September 3, 2009
Drama Queen
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
Firsts
Ella and Aidan's first day of preschool is looming in the near future. I get teary when I contemplate first days, when I imagine kids donning backpacks and heading through the doors of the places that will keep and (hopefully) nurture them for years to come.
We have parent orientation tonight and have a “meet the teachers” open house on Thursday morning. Next Tuesday, on September 8, 2009, Ella and Aidan turn 28 months old, and will pass through the doors of their school building on their very first day of preschool. It will be a day full of firsts.
For Ella and Aidan it means the first day of the two’s class, their first backpacks, their first packed lunches, their first day apart from Mommy and/or Daddy.
For Mike and I, it will be our first definitive act of letting go as parents.
When we leave them at preschool for the first time next week, I fully anticipate my knees to shake as I walk out. I anticipate sitting in the mini-van in the parking lot, feeling that heavy, dreadful sense of having lost something, and not being able to remember where I left it.